Fertility, IVF, miscarriage and women’s health counselling 

Fertility Counselling in Edinburgh and Online

BICA Trained Fertility Counsellor Edinburgh and Online

Fertility Counselling in Edinburgh and Online

Hi, I’m Ailie.

I offer fertility counselling for those navigating fertility challenges, pregnancy loss, and reproductive trauma who are looking for a space to feel understood, supported, and less alone in what they’re carrying.

Many of the people who undertake fertility counselling with me describe feeling as though they are coping on the outside while internally feeling overwhelmed, anxious, isolated, or emotionally exhausted. Therapy offers a space where all of that can be acknowledged without pressure to minimise it, stay positive, or keep going alone.

I am particularly drawn to this work because fertility challenges and reproductive loss can be profoundly isolating experiences. They often affect far more than your reproductive journey, impacting your sense of self, relationships, confidence, and hopes for the future. I believe people deserve a space where the complexity of these experiences can be spoken about openly and compassionately.

I am a BACP-registered psychotherapist, a member of the British Infertility Counselling Association (BICA) working towards accreditation, and have completed specialist training in infant loss and perinatal support through the Foundation for Infant Loss.  I have worked for over ten years with families and parents from diverse backgrounds in an Education setting and in the charity sector.  I bring this depth of experience to my counselling work.  

What is Fertility Counselling?

My core psychotherapy training is in Transactional Analysis (TA). TA helps us understand the patterns, beliefs, and ways of relating that develop throughout life. Together, we can explore how these patterns may influence the way you cope with uncertainty, navigate grief and loss, respond to self-blame, or manage the strain that fertility challenges can place on relationships.

My work is trauma-informed, with a focus on helping you feel emotionally supported through experiences such as IVF, miscarriage, baby loss, fertility uncertainty, and the impact these can have on your wellbeing and sense of identity.

Fertility struggles and reproductive trauma can be intensely medicalised events. You may feel like you have been poked, prodded, and treated like a biological machine. In my fertility counselling practice, we step entirely out of that space.
 
My approach is collaborative, somatic, and deeply gentle. I do not operate as an analytical expert who fixes you from a distance; I provide a safe pair of hands and a dedicated space to help you carry the weight of uncertainty, reclaim your identity, and feel deeply seen. If you are looking for a rigid, step-by-step clinical checklist, my style may not be the right match for you, but if you are exhausted by the pressure to ‘stay strong’ and need a safe container to process your real, raw experience, you don’t have to carry it alone.

Ways we can work together

I offer sessions online across the UK, including Scotland, England, Wales, and Northern Ireland, as well as in-person counselling in Edinburgh.

 

Fees

  • £65 — Individual 50-minute session
  • £80 — Couples 60-minute session
  • £20 — Therapeutic fertility groups (90 minutes)

I am a registered provider with Vitality Health Insurance.

 Availability:

Flexible daytime and evening slots available across the week-contact me to find a time that suits you.

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Fertility, IVF, miscarriage and reproductive trauma counselling in Edinburgh and Online UK
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